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My mother thinks I'm too young for sex. People, I'm 15 years old, not about 13.

I don't know how to start, so I'll start right off. I'm 15 and I have a girlfriend. I know it can be funny for some people, but I have a problem. I met my girlfriend at the colonies, where we used to spend time with each other. Unfortunately, they must have ended someday, and we still want to keep in touch. I live 150 km away from my girlfriend, so to meet someone has to spend the night with someone. And that's the little problem. I talked to her and her mom knows everything. She's gonna let her go to me for the night. But her dad's against it, so he's planning on telling him he's sleeping with a friend. Of course, for her to sleep at my place, my parents have to agree too. And that's hard. I came back from school and I asked my parents if my girlfriend could come to us - they said yes, she could come in for the whole day. I'm the one who tells them that I want her to sleep at our house. My dad nodded his head that way. And my mom is definitely in favor of not sleeping. And unfortunately, if Mom thinks so, it MUST be. My dad would agree, but when my mom looks at him, he gets soft. My mom thinks we're going to have sex and I'm too young for that. The truth is, I'm not too young. I'm not 13. But the point is, I don't want to do it. I just want to have a nice time with my girlfriend. My mother doesn't believe me. There's no way she can only come for a day and get back together in the evening because there's only one connection between us. I don't know how to get my parents to agree. Help me, please!

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And again, a normal confession spoiled by the title...And as for what you're talking about, I know the problem. Try to convince your mom that you want to spend time with each other during the day, and at night everyone will go to the spa... make a comment on your bed. Or take the bus/train there and let someone pick you up by car. mada possibilities
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Just tell them that if they're so worried, they can sleep in another room. What's the problem?
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they don't even want to agree to the whole knot in this.
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Or if your grandparents live near you, they'll agree to spend the night with you.
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Then maybe sleep in their room on the mattress, and she's in your room? Then they've been keeping an eye on you all night.
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You know, sex isn't always planned. Sometimes it comes out like this. My mother's afraid that making XD 15 years of bigos is a little too young for this open consent. And you can't do like the rest of the teenagers to house a... ...and you can't just go to the tents and go to the parents' living room and hug them!
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You know, not everybody's an untrained animal who wants to fuck around on the first chance he gets. And sleeping at fifteen is not bad...
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you know, my parents are like, if they find out there's gonna be a girl on the tents or houses, they're not gonna let me go or they're gonna come visit me or see what's a little shit in there too
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Not long ago, the same confession was only made by a girl. Understand, your parents don't really trust you, especially at this age. How many pregnancies are there now at the age of 15, 16, they're afraid that in your case you're... ...you're gonna have to make a comment.
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I'd be scared too because I know what I did when I was 16. I don't blame my parents at all.
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Well, that's stupid. Suppose there are friends. Girl and boy. They're not in love, they're children, just friends. But of course they can't spend the night with each other, because big adults have only one thing in their head and a thought... ...and the commentary on how the opposite sex is a fuck. A twisted thought and that's it, unfortunately.
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Well, unfortunately, son. Until you reach adulthood, you'll be left to your parents' decisions. I recommend that you equip yourself with some solid arguments and try to talk calmly about what matters to you... ...and make a comment on the topics.
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Not that something, but between 13 and 15, the difference is only 2 years.
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Great, you know math. Congratulations. And now tell that to all the decks in the other commentary who were throwing up, that I said to wait until sixteen (that is, just two years) with sex, since ... unfold the commentary and it's ready. And already the bastards threw themselves about the hey flew xD
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AloneTear exactly
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I? Your comment doesn't add anything.
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You will be of age, you will do what you think is appropriate as long as you are at the mercy of your parents, you have no choice but to comply with their rules and principles. You'll see, in adulthood, there's more than once... ...and you'll see, in adulthood, that you'll be more than happy to hear the commentary of your parents whining and reproaching. Enjoy your childhood instead of rushing into adulthood. You are 15 years old, you are an adolescent boy, a hormonal storm, etc. First sexual fascinations, do you think that your parents don't know what is happening to you? Your girlfriend is 13 years old, mentally she is still a child, but physically fully developed woman, capable of reproduction (unless she has not yet menstruated). Besides, sex has been legal since she was 15. You say you don't want to and won't have sex with her. You can't predict how your body will behave when she's around. How the hormones will work. You're still growing up. You still think your parents' behavior is funny and unfair? All your life ahead of you and one night with a woman, so wait, be reasonable.
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Only that my girlfriend is 16 and we don't want to do that.
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And that's forgive me, you didn't write in the confession of a girl's age, so the 13th one somehow became a memory for me.
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some shit with mycelium
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Great if you don't want to have sex yet because you're really too young (like what I am at your age hah). As far as parents are concerned, I understand that they are scared, but your girlfriend can always sleep in another room... please, let's get a commentary for guests, but parents should find out)
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I'm explaining to them that my girlfriend will be sleeping with me and I'll be sleeping in the guest room which is next to my parents' bedroom but unfortunately nothing comes out of it and I don't know what argument&oacute... ...and I don't know what argument...
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Why don't you wait a few days and suggest again?
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There would be many ways to solve the problem. However, the best way would be to talk to your parents honestly and convince them that you realize the consequences that sex can have even... Explain your comment with security. Ask them to trust you and you won't let them down. Besides sex, there are many other heavenly ways of getting to know yourself and expressing your feelings...
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There's no way to do that. Mommy's gonna have to get over it, that's all. In time, you'll be able to do more, now be happy to be allowed to drive.) I've had the same thing, it's been four hours in one direction and four hours in the other to see you... please expand the commentary 2/3 hours. I don't know if you're going to make it, I'm shocked that we've made it, we've been together for 7 years since we started studying, which means two years not far away, but I'll say yes - a relationship like this is a lot of sacrifices and taking away such carelessness, constantly asking parents for permission, money-raising. We did it as I wrote and everyone says they didn't believe it, but what are the chances of that happening? I think it's important to think about whether it makes sense anyway.)
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He needs to understand that even if you want to do it, you will do it during the day. For those who want to make it hard. So not letting her sleep with you changes nothing here. You have to talk to her honestly, that you're not on... make a ready-made comment, and it's just to spend more time with her when she's got so many miles to go.
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Let him sleep in the other room
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Przexiez wrote that he doesn't want to have sex, what do you mean?
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you're too young to even masturbate XD
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Talk to your mother and tell her you don't want to have sex. If she still doesn't want to trust you, suggest your girlfriend sleeps alone in the living room. After all, it's better than not seeing you two together... ...you're gonna have to make a comment. And one more thing, 15 years is not enough for sex. You don't take into account the consequences. Despite the security measures, you could fall in and then what? Can you handle raising a child? What about financial support? At this age you have a duty to educate yourself and you can't work, so it's irresponsible. And besides, at the age of 15 you still think very immature and rarely has a relationship to survive the test of time, and then one of you would regret this step.
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tell her that you hate her and that she's so weak. She'll think about it and agree. It always works. And shoot the gun. Good luck.)
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I had the same thing, I blew the ban. But we still had sex.
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My boyfriend lives 600 km away from me, I'm not 18 and it took almost a year for my parents to agree to stay overnight, but don't give up! Let your parents get to know each other, trust is the most important thing. Good luck, Dr. Dr... ...make a comment that you'll finally make it.
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And I'm only reasonable that we want to sleep in two separate rooms And they still don't have anything and the end A there's no other way because we don't have a connection someone has to sleep with someone
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By the title, I thought you wanted to have sex xd Maybe sleep in other rooms.
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Fight for it, tell them you think you're too young and you're not ready, if you feel something really deep for her show them how much you know, you care about her, right? Even cry in front of them, pok... ...and make the comment that you care about her. After all, she's the most important thing to you, right?
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Fact But crying in front of my parents a little shame But I care
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I'll say this. If you care about someone, get the fuck out of your mind, what kind of idiot you're gonna look like, do everything you can to get her back. Believe me, I know what it feels like and I'm sure of what I'm doing, I'm gonna get fired... I just want to hug this person, it's the most important thing for me. I bet that's your case.
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Thanks for the advice, really.
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straightforward
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I'm 20 years old and my mom always has a "but" when a boy sleeps with me.
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Try to get your parents used to the situation first. I was 16 when I started dating my boyfriend. We weren't allowed to do everything right away. You know, first dates, walks out. A few... We started to stay in our homes quite often, until my parents suggested that my boyfriend should not come home so late and maybe stay the night. Believe me, everything will come with time. Waiting for more opportunities strengthens the relationship. We've been together for 3 years now and this is the first time we left alone. Enjoy the opportunity to meet, even if it would be 3 hours at the beginning.
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15 years it hasn't made sex a shithead
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everything's cool overall. But if a 5-year-old told you he's not 3 years old anymore, would you take him seriously? Too little age difference to compare yourself.) And as for the confession... That age. My mother didn't... ...you can convince XD.
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Tell them to give you the mattress and that you'll sleep on the mattress and she'll sleep on your bed.
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At this age, you're not even able to get anything at night to XD with this argument.
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You don't want to have sex Boy, come on.
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Secure yourself and that's it :D
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straightforwardly say what n is
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zenada and provocation
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I DO NOT WANT
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