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My sisters are dependent on marijuana. They seem to be grown-ups, but once they got lit and ended up...

I have a problem. I have two older sisters who are 28 and 23 years old (I am 21). The oldest one is working, but she still lives in our house because of the fact that her studies did not work out and because of problems with growing up, adolescence, self-acceptance, relationships. Her life is about part-time work, eating, sitting on a computer and sleeping. In turn the younger one studies in Wrocaw, on even a good direction, lives in a state paid by my parents, they also give her to eat and pay for her studies. The problem arises when the younger one comes home on holiday or vacation. The two of us are starting to heat up, even a few times a day. In general, they've been on fire a lot for over a year now, and they started to fire 6 years ago. They take money from their parents, they waste their money, they are aggressive at home and set up a house, even their parents. Every few days there is an argument between me and the oldest one (which ends with insults, insults and threats, and has become aggressive somehow for a year). They're screaming, it might even get handcuffed soon. I'm afraid that something may happen between them and me, and even between them and my parents. I ask for help and advice, especially from the parents of such people, I ask for advice from people close to such addicts. My parents don't know whether to use blackmail (kicking out of the house if they don't quit drugs) or not giving money at all or something else. I'm also a victim of such aggression, they take advantage of me. Please help me. They seem to have enrolled in therapy as two of their own free will, but it's not the first time. The situation even got worse. The parents also talked to them many times, but that didn't help. They also threatened to be kicked out of the house, but eventually Mommy slipped away and the oldest one came back. I know it's pathology for the oldest to still live with her parents, but what can we do about it. Mom is afraid that she'll become a junkie by then, and you know the mother wants the best for her children. No comments are unwelcome, I'm in distraction, let it go... Please. Don't talk to me about upbringing problems, because an addiction can affect anyone, not because of parents or even addicts.

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First of all, your sisters aren't dependent on marijuana but on the agent with which it is soaked by dealers to increase demand and real addiction. In Poland, it is usually methamphetics... ...and then you're gonna have to take the commentary. It is said to be addictive, but it is "weak" and in general there are no attacks of aggression after smoking or during the breaks between hay and the hay - this one is due to the agent added or because of family relationships. For soaking marijuana, I've even heard of a dealer spraying it with muchozole - users were said to be delighted with the power. So the abuse of this plant results from additives and it is worth knowing about. And now why are they like this: Well, people in their actions are guided by how they bear their emotions or in order to satisfy their needs. Among other things, of course. When the needs are not satisfied and cannot be satisfied because it is impossible or unaware of what the needs are, fixations and behavioural disorders appear. As you can see, the problem requires knowing
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Really? You think anybody would soak my methamphetamine? This would not be cost-effective. Besides, both substances have a completely different profile.Sure, it can be soaked, but another... expand the commentary with chemistry.
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Is that a comment about??
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It is a commentary that deepens the subject.
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As you can see, the problem requires knowledge, and among the users of the portal we confess you are unlikely to find it. Remember, however, that people don't train and forced guns are effective in the short term, natomias... develop a commentary of understanding, respect, cooperation and empathy are good grounds for action. For girls to change, they must want it. ONE, not you. So all you can do is create projections in their minds, beneficial projections of profits and the benefits that a change in lifestyle would bring. It may seem like a high-flying thing, but true fraternal and parental love can work wonders. Specifically, showing it. For more, go to forumpsychological.org
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The point is that they know what they may be abusing it, but they do it anyway. As I have written, they've been on fire for so long that they've lost their motivation, any desire, their current life is enough for them. Speaking of understanding, it was... make a comment on it to them, because my father is a doctor. Their parents gave them a chance to make amends, they listened to their sisters' confessions about how they were wasting their lives and their assurances of change, but they still come back to it. My parents are really powerless because it takes too long. I asked for ideas to fix the situation. My father says they are aggressive (or by these means) because of the marijuana, he says that the short-term effect of taking is the high and low, but the long-term effect is a change in the brain, a lack of motivation, addiction, which results in general aggression. This is the worst and their future.
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but as you can see, once in a while, you're going to find someone on this portal
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Are you sure your sisters smoke grass and not some rc-ki or crack? Listening to me about my aggression is a total abstraction for me.You're not gonna do anything until the girls find out for themselves that they want a different... expand on your life's commentary. You can only help them to persevere in their decisions, that is, if you give as an ultimatum, for example, the possibility to live with you only on condition that they undergo one year's rehab and then therapy, then you have to keep it and that's it. In this case, mercy is a crime.
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This. It's not just grass.
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I can't look at the comments "grass is not addictive" or "you're not aggressive after grass", "they have to take something stronger". Marijuana causes mental addiction, and that and... Discuss the comment harder to give it up, because the body itself does not force the substance. This is how the subconscious works. The smoker regularly thinks that he or she is the one who decides whether or not to do it, and it's just a "willingness" to make a turn/loop/ anything, so everything is "under control". Everyone associates the brand with chillout, blissful calmness and composure, and that's shit for apologizing. Maybe it is, but only during and after the use. But what happens to a person like that when he doesn't have access to the merchandise, and he wants so much? And what if it's over in the evening when such a person smokes before going to bed, because then they better get some sleep? What if she can't smoke because her parents and sister are at home, so it's out of the question to go home or take a walk for a short time? That's when there are symptoms of insomnia, frustration, and then aggression. Especially aimed at people who are obstructing the fulfilment of this need. Even the purest marijuana, first-hand, can cause such states. So much for the subject.
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The doppelganger chicks are burning up and they're hanging heresy on the cottage, if they don't want to change themselves, you can't change them, let your mother go and don't help her if she insults it when she wants to help herself... unfold the comment it will come as if the dog gets hungry and returns to the kennel.
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You're fucked up. I know a lot more about it than those who read shit-and-tell interviews, urban legends and other fake news on the Internet, nobody adds chemistry to the herb, and even if, it's just a settlement of pseud... develop a commentary-dealer, but not to make the subject stronger just to make it heavier on weight. The only means that could strengthen the power of the subject are synthetic cannabinoids, which would cause sick phases after smoking, e.g. panic and anxiety attacks, not hurricane, but only during the phase. It's practically impossible not to know that there's something wrong with smoking this shit. They would also cause a characteristic addiction, other than this "herbal" one. And aggression is not caused by smoking weed but by a personal attitude to life. Just as you can become addicted to candy, the question is - are sweets bad or inappropriate?
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maybe the world is more diverse than the local area you live in.
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Oh, it's not Maryska. They depend on something else, because the aggression and typical acts you described don't approach people who even smoke all day. If they don't want to put it away, they don't really... make a comment.
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Mom said their abstinence would be a condition of living here. We'll see how it goes. Yes, I'm sure.
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There can be as many reactions as people in the world. My friend had a panic attack and hysteria, her heart was pounding like a hammer and she couldn't breathe for a while, there was a shortage, and you would have to call an ambulance. And all this... expand the commentary that happened in Holland after buying pure marijuana in a legal shop.
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Marijuana doesn't work like that. Marijuana even calms my dear.
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Grass does not cause aggression. Maybe your sisters are like that after fasting.
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