My sisters are dependent on marijuana. They seem to be grown-ups, but once they got lit and ended up...
I have a problem. I have two older sisters who are 28 and 23 years old (I am 21). The oldest one is working, but she still lives in our house because of the fact that her studies did not work out and because of problems with growing up, adolescence, self-acceptance, relationships. Her life is about part-time work, eating, sitting on a computer and sleeping. In turn the younger one studies in Wrocaw, on even a good direction, lives in a state paid by my parents, they also give her to eat and pay for her studies.
The problem arises when the younger one comes home on holiday or vacation. The two of us are starting to heat up, even a few times a day. In general, they've been on fire a lot for over a year now, and they started to fire 6 years ago. They take money from their parents, they waste their money, they are aggressive at home and set up a house, even their parents. Every few days there is an argument between me and the oldest one (which ends with insults, insults and threats, and has become aggressive somehow for a year). They're screaming, it might even get handcuffed soon. I'm afraid that something may happen between them and me, and even between them and my parents.
I ask for help and advice, especially from the parents of such people, I ask for advice from people close to such addicts. My parents don't know whether to use blackmail (kicking out of the house if they don't quit drugs) or not giving money at all or something else. I'm also a victim of such aggression, they take advantage of me. Please help me. They seem to have enrolled in therapy as two of their own free will, but it's not the first time. The situation even got worse. The parents also talked to them many times, but that didn't help. They also threatened to be kicked out of the house, but eventually Mommy slipped away and the oldest one came back.
I know it's pathology for the oldest to still live with her parents, but what can we do about it. Mom is afraid that she'll become a junkie by then, and you know the mother wants the best for her children.
No comments are unwelcome, I'm in distraction, let it go... Please. Don't talk to me about upbringing problems, because an addiction can affect anyone, not because of parents or even addicts.