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It's all going to be a mess because I'm a lesbian.

Until recently, my life was perfect. Dream school, great friends and boyfriends, but for some time now I feel like everything has changed drastically. For over a month now, I've been feeling depressed for a reason. My boyfriend is wonderful, dear, caring and always helps me, but I don't feel anything for him anymore because...I'm a lesbian. Yeah, I feel like I'm not into boys for a while. I can't imagine continuing this relationship, I'm not happy about it. I don't know how to get to a breakup. I don't want to hurt him so much because he cares about me. Friends have always supported me, but I can't tell them that. I don't know how they'll react. I'm scared. And now the worst. I fell in love at first sight with a girl in second grade. She's perfect. My legs bend when I walk by her. I would never dare talk to her to meet her. I'm very shy. I don't even know her name. All I know is that she has a beautiful smile and I guess she is bisexual, but I don't know if that's true. It hurts so much, I can't deal with my mixed feelings. She doesn't even know about my existence. It pains me so much that I have to hide my feelings. I feel like I'm depressed because I've ruined everything...
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Break up and don't hurt the boy anymore...
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Let's put it another way. If you think your boyfriend is worthy of trust and you respect him for what he is like, talk to him honestly. I think it would be most appropriate to present him with the situation... make a comment on him. It's neither his nor your fault. You're probably at such an age that you just had to find out whether you're beat or straight. You can tell your friends one common, fixed version, and I think that even if somebody were to find out, you'd be fine. And you can always make friends :)
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The surprising thing about this website is that if a woman wants to break up with her boyfriend because she loves somebody else, it's okay and everyone supports her and tells her to think about herself because she has to be happy and if she's a guy... ...that he has to break up with a woman, and all of a sudden he's a pig and an asshole who jumps from one flower to the next and that he doesn't think about the woman's feelings and that she's gonna be hurt badly, that's what makes people think today.
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I agree completely. I often do. People take everything for granted. A guy is a guy or an animal without feelings. Of course I'm not talking about all of them. People, consciously or unconsciously, group everyone in groups... ...and then you're gonna have to make your own comments. Colonies. Parts. You can call it what you want to call it, and since people don't see the writer's eyes give them a patch of what the rest of them call it. Unfortunately, some of them have forgotten what it's like to have their own opinion or premonitions.
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I was right to notice that too. The guy is always an asshole.
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The heart is no servant. Neither male nor female.
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If you want to talk to someone, sometimes it's better to talk to someone you don't know :)
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During adolescence, there are cases when a teenager thinks he is homosexual. After a while, it passes. But if I were you, I would talk to my boyfriend about it. Just to be calm and gentle in... expand your comments and explain the situation to him ;)
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and if she wrote with another boyfriend she fell in love with that rag. And for the homo TOLERANCE. I'm not sorry.
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gg you don't even know her name, but "you guess she's bi" is what the fuck in the 21st century every pretty girl is bi? fuck this world...
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The first person to know I was gay was my "girlfriend" in 1st grade of LO. I did it because I noticed he was starting to feel something for me. I didn't want to hurt her. It was a good decision, b... She has developed comments for me with support and helped me to deal with self-acceptance. Two years later, I knew who I was and I knew I had real friends. I also knew I had fakes. I told one of the others. She got me coming out in front of the whole school and on. And I'm glad. That was 10 years ago, now I have a life in order, I hardly ever had to go through this stress of "what people say" and most of them, on the contrary, turned out to be reacting very well and giving a lot of energy to go through life.
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I believe that young people (I conclude that the author is in middle or high school) often have bad feelings about their sexuality. Maybe it's just a little bit of a pass and you'll get over it :)
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You're afraid of rejection, that's understandable. If you want to talk, let me know.)
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Spk I'm doing it with a friend because I have to live out my life and masturbation doesn't work on me, but I'd like to do some ice cream and put myself in a hole. Besides, I like to be licked or kissed with a tongue... ...but I don't have anyone like that with the rest of them.
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I once had a friend ( in college ), he found out he was gay and explained to the Netherlands for treatment, after 3 years he has a loving wife, son Antek and told me that he disgusted who he once was :/
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Trust me, my sister is straight and almost every girl is willing even though sometimes it turns out that it was a stage, but it is worth trying because you will not lose anything and you can gain
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Fucking homo
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perhaps you
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. . .the others will probably have a good idea that the maid threw him away for another.
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I had the same... a girl dumped me for a girl. It's a better option anyway.
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