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I'm jealous of my friend

My friend's name is Damian. I don't even know why, but when I see him with the other girls, a wave of jealousy automatically rises in me. Well, maybe our relationship is a little bit different from just friendships, sometimes there may be more, but we're not together and I know we never will. I'm not in love with him, and I'm just so sure of it, because I know what it's like. To fall in love. Unfortunately. I love him, but it's a purely friendly love, even as between siblings. But when I see him hugging some other girl, or other girls want to pick him up, because, well, he's handsome, I'm sorry. I don't want to choose who he has to deal with because I think it's idiotic, even in relationships, but... I just don't know what I mean, I want to analyze my feelings. I like him, we even went to class together because of each other and we spend days with each other in a practical way, and if we don't, we usually write with each other. We have a lot of interests in common, and I'd say we're a good pair of friends. Would I like to be in a relationship with him? I don't know. I'd be very afraid for our friendship, but maybe I'd like to try. I don't even know why I'm writing this confession, I just want to know your opinion, what I really mean. I'm not in love, that's for sure.

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Or are you afraid they're gonna become like a competition? That when Damian meets them, your relationship, your conversations, your hugs and "sometimes maybe something more" will end?
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First of all, you have to think a few times about what you're afraid they'll take him away from you as a friend? Do you feel more for him than for your brother's friend? Would you like to be with him? Would he suit you as your father's husband... ...and make a comment on your children? Is he good? I respect you. Can you count on him? Do you love him that way for 1000000%? Think a few times and offer him a face-to-face conversation with a relaxed atmosphere, tell him what's on your mind if it's your friend who will listen to you and he'll tell you his opinion and you'll understand what to do and how to do it :) I wish him luck and keep my fingers crossed to make things better :) Think
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Girlfriend :) you've fallen in love, that's for sure :) at least from my point of view :) a friend had the same situation. From the side you could see that something was sparking between them and they knew each other from the sandbox :) and you know what? Explain the comment Now she is the happiest in the world and next year she will marry him :) talk to him, love is not just about sex, and look into each other's eyes. Love is mainly based on trust, on a sense of security but more importantly on friendship. So you shouldn't be afraid, because the way you met him on a friend's foot will make the relationship work, and it can only make you stronger :) sometimes it's worth taking a risk to make something good even better :)
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Typical frenchy, you don't want to be with him, but you don't let the thought that another would. I was in this situation myself, I was in love with a girl but she treated me like a servant. I had to support her and send her... ...and then you can comment on how she doesn't do it with guys. And when another one was interested in me, I couldn't understand why they were breaking off contact so quickly. It came out years later... This measly bitch was tracking down my potential girlfriend after a few days and starting the attack. She talked her nonsense about me until she ran away. That's the kind of friend I had Sam told me when we drank, I've been despising her ever since, pretending not to meet her on the street and not to have any contact. Although she's asked me for help many times.
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