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The problem of underage cohabitation

I have noticed that a lot of young girls raise the issue of their own sexuality on the Internet. What everyone answers unanimously: children do not have sex. Shit. Sex in high school. Taboo subjects. The argument is close to me: I was 13 years old when I met my current fianc. I started living with him when I was 16. I've never had another boyfriend, or been close to another. As long as I can remember, I always knew he was the one. But if I knew what coexistence entailed, I would do it later. My dear, it's all a matter of awareness. I've never been aware of any issues related to my own sexuality. I knew something there from the Internet, something from my friends who bought a new "BRAVO". Get to the point. Let each of these "wise adults", who respond with these stupid comments about young people, answer the question. Where should young people learn from? Parents at home will not always give the right message about this, and the "Lady of Religion" will point out that sex is only practiced after marriage, and the child is a gift from God. So much for that. You're surprised that girls brag about being virgins Internet users tell them that "no virgins in high school" - That's why the girls want to say, "I don't know what it's like to know from A to Z but I am." Some things are not understandable. The most important thing is to make everyone aware of their CHILDREN, KUZYNW, KNEY and so on. The young man is interesting. I want to know everything about everything, brag to my colleagues and have some knowledge that is different from the canon used in schools.That's why they want to try, experiment and learn new things.Let's not make sex a taboo subject. It concerns us all. Adults, children. Age doesn't matter. The most important thing is to learn and not to redden when the child asks what it means. Tell your daughters they're beautiful... and show your sons their strength. Let's be clear. Let's not be afraid. Let's reflect.

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I agree with the author of the confession. If I had to make young people aware otherwise than e.g. in religion classes, where all I learned was that premarital sex is be, maybe there wouldn't be so many teenage mothers and fathers... expand the commentary. Maybe if people didn't look at the young as aliens when they buy rubber bands, that would be better. Because if they're going to have sex, they'll do it anyway.
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Now catechists don't teach it. I learned all about nature in the 5th grade.
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I agree with you there :)
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Finally, someone wrote it. When everyone makes a forbidden subject out of it, then there are problems and suddenly the whole world wonders how this could have happened, and it's our fault. It's just a shame that because of our stupidity and... Let's make a comment and children/young people have a life later on, I won't say destroyed, but often difficult.
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Oh, and so honestly? Now young people have access to the subject of sex, I hear in the hallway (I'm still in school and primary and secondary schools are combined) that an 11-year-old says to a friend in jokes, "Show your boobs... make a comment'' or 'though you fuckin' people.... they know what a penis is, and so what? but has anyone taught us that it's something incredible that it's a special moment in life and not just a "cool claw"? I'm a young person in primary school. In the picture they showed us nicely where what is and what is and on the WDZR what is the period when and how you wear your pads and what is an erection in boys. And I guarantee that it was not a WOW effect because we knew it well and contraception? condoms and pills and goodbye and where is the rest? and the rest you have to find out from the Internet so please WARNING THAT children do not want to know what the penis is but what feeling they have to give us when we decide on the first time we should explain what love is as often as we talk about sex.
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The truth is, I'd like to know what's normal, what's normal, what you don't do to not go out on a weird person in bed, a whore, what's not right, what's after what time. Everyone's heard of birds and nests when he was 5 years old, so he's a little... please expand the comment I would like to know what the SEx is supposed to look like and what it is OK to do and what it is not to do or what it is not to do because it is considered to be a daytime thing ;(
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There are no strange things in bed, there are only things we don't like, we can't be ashamed of because there is nothing. Every move or touch is really spontaneous, sex can't be taught as in porn and believe that... unfold the comment it doesn't even look the same as in porn. Your first time can last 5 minutes and can last half an hour, it all depends on you and your partner, whether you are properly prepared and informed. If you don't know what to do and how to do it because you're doing it for the first time, tell your partner that he knows your body will guide you and help you. The most important thing is also to talk to your partner, what you like and what he likes if you both didn't do it then instead of sex you can start with mutual masturbation. The fact that it is worth waiting and learning as much as possible about sexuality, about being a virgin, about the first time, how it can look or hurt or not because it depends on your body and your preparation
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Christ, there are still such wise, yet young creatures! Bravo, my dear! :-) a comment worthy of admiration!
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I agree in part, no in part. Just because parents don't talk to their children about these things doesn't mean they don't have anywhere to go. In elementary school, both in the education... develop commentaries on family life and, above all, in nature, children will learn about what and how, what is different between a boy and a girl, how it all works, how a pregnancy arises. They have to write a test on it. Anyway, there's something left in the brain, so everyone's aware. And whether they start in high school or after the wedding is really a kid's choice. Maybe he'll regret it afterwards, or maybe he'll start doing it with everyone and not bother. And the parent has no control over that. This has always been the case, once 13-year-old girls were married and started to live together on their wedding night. And in the morning a bloody sheet was hung in front of the house. It was normal. That's why it's always been, is and always will be. That's the truth.
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The lady of nature should also explain that it gives pleasure, why women have lechitta, what is connected with having sex, what illnesses and how to prevent them from bringing them up to live in a family already in middle school or 8th grade... Explain the comments should be the ways of contraception (I only had it in the 3rd class of the technical school) all ways and not just pills and condoms. Such things should be taught by a sexologist and not by a historical or religious lady, we should learn about our sexuality about what is wrong with forcing someone to live together, for example, it is a crime to talk loosely about these topics and not to treat it as a taboo subject that sex is only after marriage or how to be an adult because kids at the age of 15 do not look at each other's eyes and this is how it was always normal in adolescence.
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our lady's still in the ground. she said in nature that we only make it into a pate without a test and WD? here is teaching you how to put on a headband and that a boy on a penis and a girl doesn't
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My elementary school also said there would be no test. The same thing we had about putting on the headband at WD :)
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we about tampons and a little bit of body changes
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It's up to the teacher, you see. These topics in nature are in the program base and the test should be. And even if you've been discussing it without a test, there's still something left in your head, especially since the subject is... expand the commentary of the taboo season discussed by children in primary school is something 'wow'.
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You're right. :)
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I agree with you. Even in high school, the religion teachers would say, "and the children bring a stork!" xD
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What scares me most is that people who have no idea about sex. Then flowers like that come out the first time you can't get pregnant...
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It's the result of a child's misconception, the girl looks for information on the Internet and finds such stupidity or asks friends who, like her, don't know shit about it.
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Exactly, and as far as inernet is concerned, they say sex in middle school pathology! And once you don't meet a virgin or a virgin in high school and then the teenagers have shit in their heads
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Unfortunately, in our country, education on this subject is very poor
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I see the problem described in this confession. In the attached picture. My lady in physics taught me in the I.D.C. Elementary School. She taught me as much as I knew from biology. The construction of the male and female reproductive organs and... expand the commentary on topics like this: "What's love? "Is it worth giving up for money?" "adolescence - what's happening to our body (only a truncated subject to the limit). Well, of course, I'm on the subject of the period. Under the motto, "No tampons! Why? "Because there was this wise girl who used tampons and then had staphylococcus in her vagina. ( XD ) So that you guys in class won't know you're menstruating. When we were talking about contraception it was, "sex is only done in marriage and when people love each other they don't need contraception. And when one bolder person finally asked what a condom was, the answer was yes: "It's a latex balloon. Thank God another lady taught me after primary school. She taught us more than the previous teacher, but it wasn't crazy. It wasn't until I took the mission to educate my class in the next lesson. It was only after the presentation and discussion that they had any idea about contraception. We'd be out of this. The rest is about family and how to avoid family quarrels. And now I am not surprised that young people have so much knowledge about contraception. If such topics cannot be discussed at wd because "the core curriculum does not provide for this", there should be at least twice a year lessons conducted by people who are involved in making young people aware of contraception and sexual initiation.
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I was so lucky that my teacher from WD in primary school could explain well, without exaggerating too much. And so I didn't even have to ask my parents how it works, because I... I'd already made a rich comment about it as a child.
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Exactly, continue with this text ;)
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It's good that there are people like you :)))I agree with all my heart :))
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I fully agree with you. In my confession, I described my first time. And people wrote right away about the fucking kids and how I was too young.
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I sympathize with children whose parents pretend there's no such thing, and the kids come out of the cabbage... and then you wonder, man, that "kids give birth"...
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I agree 100%
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I support it. So my parents didn't make me aware, so I found out from my friends... in the 3rd grade of the school. I'M NOT... One big lie. Depends on what kind of cut you get? We from 4th or 5th grade (I don't remember) to now 1st... expand the commentary of the junior high school class we learn only about family reactions, conflicts. Only some 2-3 lessons in 6th grade were about the difference between a boy and a girl and what changes during puberty. Only 1 lesson was about menstruation, what it is and why, and when there is something disturbing. Not a word about pads and tampons.
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sexual contact with a person under 15 years of age is a crime, so don't write that age doesn't matter, unless it's about judgement. Here it should be that when a child starts to get a little serious and... develop a commentary behind the girls/boys a parent should make a conversation, the youngsters have access to knowledge, but they will post a porn page to see how it is done, they will not get the idea of posting a forum to find out how to protect themselves from pregnancy. Mothers should openly speak to their daughters with the first time without protection is the main reason for underage mothers, to notice that the eraser does not protect 100% teach the use of the calendar of fertile days, to say that these days even with an eraser shouldn't (which doesn't mean they shouldn't use it in others) because it can always break, to say that it would be good if a boy pulls out before he gets to the point where he's wearing an eraser because sometimes the last push can be the one that breaks the eraser, to offer hormonal contraceptives, to warn about venereal diseases, vaginal and vulvar infections, to tell the son to be careful and before he touches the girl to wash his hands, to show respect, the daughter to remember to tell the boy "go wash your hands, you've touched things, I can get infections". My mother talked to me, she wanted to protect me from having to give up my dreams. By offering me anti-concepts at the gynecologist's, I found out that I had an infection and a lot of surveillance that I had no idea what she was thanking her for, and I know she was showing me love in that way - taking care of me like a treasure.
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Finally, someone clever has spoken.
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I'm really sorry that nobody ever told me that you could get bladder inflammation or ovarian pain. Not parents, not in school.
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What kind of mamona is on Ruhansk these days. Will you write us?
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I don't know, but when I was 14 years old (92) I knew as much about sex as I needed to, despite the lack of conversations with my parents, older siblings etc. Some internet, some peers, some... ...and then you're gonna have to take a commentary. And I knew what the consequences of sex could be, that I wouldn't have sex for long. However, the fact that this should be discussed more in schools. Raising to live in a family in my time was a laughing stock. I've taken more out of biology, and not really.
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I've set up an account specifically for this confession. It's not true that every high school girl isn't a virgin anymore. There are many girls who respect each other and don't attract them to it. A good case is mine. I have 20 years... expand the commentary of my fianc 22, we started together when I was 18 years old, almost 19. So don't throw them all into one bag, because there are probably a few people who have already been together at that age for a few decades ;).
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If no one had told you that this is a taboo subject, no one would have experimented so much, and the school would talk about it without any restraint, which would result in fewer "young mothers"...
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A fair call. But I'm a little scared that people younger than me have a richer sex life.
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And what does it mean, a virgin from A to Z because I don't get it?
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Very wise words.
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I agree with you. Young people should be made aware early on so that no unpleasant situations occur. We should not only talk about how it looks, but how to approach it, how to show our feelings, love and consistency... expand your sex-related comments. I found out myself very early and I have no regrets. Now I know what I want, what I feel and I take relationships very seriously. I'm not going to make love to anyone, because it'll only make you feel guilty.
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But are you aware that there are lessons about sex life now in 5th grade?
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Like these "children" on the Internet, they prefer to search for and pretend to be great experts. Sorry, but at 15+, children already know enough to know what sex is and how they want to know at such a young age... unfold the commentary to destroy life please, only let them later not resent their parents and other people. Let them learn to blame themselves for their mistakes.
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You're drooling yourself when you see a young asshole.
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I'm rather embarrassed. I'm sorry, but I don't want anything to do with shit.
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I think there was something wrong with me, because they taught me that in primary school... I didn't even have to ask my parents how it works, because I already knew it.
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I don't understand this confession. So if nobody tells a girl that if her boyfriend gets caught up in the crap, she's gonna be a kid, she's not gonna know it for the rest of her life? Or what?
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Kids in high school don't know what sex is? Hello! Wake up! :)
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Yeah. They talk a lot, they talk a lot and they really don't know much about it. They only repeat what they have heard from people 3
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They don't have experience. That doesn't mean they don't know. I'm one of the early years of middle school and in primary school we already knew more or less what and how. We were looking for people who have porn has vh... please unclarify the commentary. And now? There's the Internet, young people learn how to write, and when they learn how to write, they're the first to write their tits on Google... Besides, there was at least one person in junior high school in the first year. It was a colleague and he told us exactly what it looked like. And when I graduated from school, it was about 30%, the three graders had it behind them.
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there's something like WDJty and they're from 5th grade...
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even since 4 :') I was already in my 4th grade and the girl from class held her hands so strangely to her chest that she supposedly had tits and the lady touched the other one after her tits because she had the biggest tits >v
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The one where they teach how to grow tits and penises and that sex is one big evil :)
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Somehow my WD teacher in elementary school could explain it very well, and there was no talking about how bad the sex is...
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it depends only on the teacher :)
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What's the point of telling the glasses they're strong? XD
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I'm 11 years old and I know a lot about sex ;)
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Can you see how you're doing? Maybe she really is a wise 11-year-old, I remember myself when I was 11, I also knew a lot, the fact that mainly from the Internet, but I knew. Just now, you've read a very clever article... develop a commentary so as not to rule out talking about sex with children and you probably agreed in spirit, but it has come to light that an 11-year-old girl cannot be infuriating, that you know something about me, because she's 11 years old... it's a Kid's MACE... People think about yourselves, not every 11-year-old is a stupid brat who knows only such concepts as tablet and computer games, seriously. Break away from the group, go your own way, not someone else's way :)
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in that case, what diseases are associated with intercourse (except hiv/aids)?
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...is really something to brag about...
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From the knowledge of the yard.
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Oh no... XD
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Sexmaster, is that already?
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People, distance, what are the downsides? It was just a joke.)
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This text is too clever for a sexmaster, she wouldn't understand half the words from it ;).
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I was watching her snap on the snapchat. The sight of this "woman" showing cunt, tits for stupid displays and publicity confirms my belief that she is empty. A normal and intelligent person wouldn't do that... expand the commentary on things.
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I recommend watching "the sisters" there is 100% true
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and have you ever watched it? That you're judging right away? I changed my attitude to her after watching Q&A. I find her to be a very posh, tolerant girl with an unusual hobby. I accept it and don't judge people... expand your comments by nickname, look ;)
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